The universe is made of energy and atoms. The vibes we put out into the universe is vital. When you realize the power of your energy you will be aware. You have a choice about which energetic frequencies you want to live in.
Love is one of the highest vibrations. According to Dr. Emoto, he "claimed that human consciousness has an effect on the molecular structure of water. Emoto's conjecture evolved over the years, and his early work explored his belief that water could react to positive thoughts and words, and that polluted water could be cleaned through prayer and positive visualization."
Therefore, it is really critical what you think of in the universe. The fundamental concept starts with you.
We grew up in an age of not being good enough or that we don't deserve the best. Our subconscious minds dictate 90% of what we do from what we learned when we were children. I am writing to tell you this because we are not aware and we get caught up with things in life.
In a nutshell, if you want to change the outcome of your life, love yourself. Once you love yourself, everything will fall into place.